Today I was surprised when a speech pathologist arrived in mother's room. It turns out that her pulmonary doctor was thinking that maybe this ongoing gurgling cough is related to swallowing difficulties. They did some tests. Sure enough, there's another big problem: her dysphagia is "moderate to severe," and now she can't drink liquids unless they have been thickened, and she can't eat solid foods unless they are already soft, or ground up. No more steak, or chicken. Fish is OK. And mashed potatoes. And I guess overcooked vegetables would be just fine. Probably soup, too.
Next, the hospitalist took her off of her usual "nose drops," to which she has been addicted for at least 40 years, that I know of. And that has her nearly frantic.
And, today, she's been showing some intermittent paranoid psychosis. And she still can't walk or stand up on her own.
The social worker says that a lot of nursing homes won't consider her, because of her history of getting agitated and hostile with the staff during this hospitalization.
Back at the home front: Tracy, my mother's un-housebroken wire-hair fox terrier, escaped from my yard today; fortunately, I was at home when it happened, and found him and brought him back. So he and I got in the car and went to Petco and got him a wire cage thing, with a nice bed and water dish. He seems to like it OK, so far. When he goes out in the yard, he now has to be escorted, and taken on a leash through the house, back to his box.
I'm pretty tired this afternoon.



2 comments:
I have walked the path you are now walking with your mother in the hospital, and know the authenticity of your every word. You will never regret fighting for her the way you are doing, even though she might not have fought for herself during healthier times. Going the distance will help her in the short run, and will be a gift for you in the long run.
Thanks, Beth. I appreciate that very much.
Delany
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